Sexuality and Creativity
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SEXUAL RENEWAL
What is it you truly desire?
What does your wildness want?
So many life events affect our access to our desires. It’s not just sex which impact our desires. It’s the amount of time we spend making excuses for why we don’t need or deserve what we truly want. The way to have a fulfilling sex life is to be more honest with ourselves and finding our voice everyday.
Honesty is necessary both in sex and in life. Without honesty, our desire becomes watered down by fear. The affects are not just sexual lives. Overthinking, confusion, poor boundaries and feeling generally unsatisfied are all part of our life of desire. The rewards are many, not least of all living a life in authentic personal power.
To revitalize and discover our sexuality we need to listen to ourselves differently. We need to be aware of the parts of the body we generally ignore. This takes mindfulness and patience and most of all fastidious self care. The good news is the results are quick.
You’ll get used to feeling activation where you once felt a void. If desire is something you’ve been dealing with for years, you might be motivated by fear.
Our feelings are deep inside of us, we tend to run from things. We use external factors to distract us from facing our fear and getting to the core of what we really want. Once we really begin to voice our desires we give ourseelves permission to live a confident and authentic life.
Sexual renewal and discovery helps us heal past blockages and overcome negative unconscious drives.
“The erotic is a measure between the beginnings of our sense of self and the chaos of our strongest feelings.”
Audre Lorde
“Sexuality is the lyricism of the masses.”
Charles Baudelaire
Our desires can feel like walking into an open field.
Feel the power of coming into brutal honesty and having the world open up to you.
Discovering your sincere desires may be the key to you living out your full potential and purpose in this life.
We can’t separate our sexuality from culture. Our sexuality is one of the most sensitive aspects of our psyche. Quite literally, it’s our own body. The Victorians relegated our sexuality to the dark corners of our lives where shame and secrecy lives.
What if we took our sexuality out of the shadows and used it as a tool to live fulfilling lives? The stakes are higher for women. We only need to look at how our desire has been funneled into buying products. Are the things we’re buying what we really want? Or is there a deeper desire we’re not getting met? We even have a word for it, it’s called “shopping-therapy” and most of us do it.
What is your desire? What does the deepest part of your voice want to express? What do you want to say when your existence feels too restrictive?
Anais Nin writes, “She lacks confidence she craves admiration insatiably. She lives on the reflection of herself in the eyes of others. She does not dare be herself. ”
“Who looks outside, dreams; who looks within, awakes.” -Carl Jung
“All truth passes through three stages: First, it is ridiculed; Second, it is violently opposed; Third, it is accepted as self-evident.” -Arthur Schopenhauer
“Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.” -Lucille Ball
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